Gay Dating Advice

Call it marriage for Pete's sake!

It's time to call it what it is and stop trying to make us different and separate!

As a current resident of New Jersey, I was quite excited and waited with breath that is baited, what the decision would be.  Needless to say, the ruling is bitter sweet.

The state Supreme Court on Wednesday ruled that New Jersey must extend all the rights of marriage to gay couples. But the justices left it to state lawmakers to decide whether to provide those rights in the form of marriages, civil unions or something else _ and gave the Legislature 180 days to reach a decision.

Relationship is a verb, not a noun!

coming soon!

Is a relationship all about work?

NO!!!!

While many think that a good relationship is all about work, it's not.  There are some things that are just deal breakers!

Getting on each others nerves

While reading Cynthia O'Neal's daily advice in out magazine, I came across a letter that piqued my interest.

In this letter the man complained about he and his partners getting on each others nerves and their lack of friends....O'neals advice was right on the money...so what am I piqued about....

A little rain must fall

Yes even my relationship is visited by conflict...and learning how do deal with it is a skill that is everyone's responsibility to learn.  Conflict is a fact of life.  The sooner we all accept this fact the easier it will be to deal with.

It Ruins it if I have to ask

Oh how many times I have heard members of couples say to me, "but if I have to ask for____then its not the same.

This regressed childish statement speaks of the magic of intuiting you, your needs, wants and desires!

So lonely!

For the past year and some months now, my partner and I have been working together at home.  Except for my one day a week jaunt into NYC each week for Friends In Deed.  We spend the majority of our daily lives together....