The one you love does not call, text, email or communicate with you often enough..often enough for what though?
Often enough so that your concept of "enough" is satisfied. When that "enough" is satisfied, all is right with the world..or is it?
It is as if to say...If my beloved loved me, then my beloved would call, write, text...etc...but that is only your map. Are you ready to entertain the idea that someone elses map might be different than yours?
You will save yourself a great deal of emotional wear and tear if you do. If you consider that the amount that someone communicates with you has to do with who they are and not really who you are. They may be thinking of you with out calling, communicating or connecting. You may be taking up a great deal of air time in their head with out them acting on those thoughts.
Not all people are working off of your map..so chill out, relax....give the one you love some space.
Now, just for clarifications sake, I am not suggesting that you wait around for someone who is clearly not interested in you, which is really what unrequited love is all about...what I am talking about in this post is when the one you love has shown interest!
If you want to fan the flames of attachment...keep your interactions positive, light and enjoyable!!!!
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