Dating is the most un natural act of our species!
Meet someone, get to know them, ask them on a date, meet at a specified time and place to get together with the notion of getting to know them better and hopefully have fun.
A date is a socially contrived activity. It is a construct of our own making to give the appearance of civility and try and do something more that operate with our penis!
As your penis argues with your reason you make attempts at trying to find a life partner. To meet someone you are attracted to, like enough and hopefully meet some of your other criteria.
Now, there is good common sense for you to take a more cautious, reason-abled, step by step approach to this process. Many know the difficulty with setting aside your short term wants for your long term goals. That is why this approach makes good sense.
If in fact you want a long term relationship there are a number of things you can do in order to make your dating life a lot less pain full.
In the free dating course I talk about the importance of the four critical dating skills so I will not go into them here.
However if you want to utilize those skills more effectively in your dating quest it is advisable to create pre dating rituals.
1. Before going out and looking for dating prospects.
2. Before making a date
3. Before going out on a date
4. After your date
If you create some basic rituals, you will find that your dating life will be easier and on purpose.
Happy dating..
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