Oh how many times I have heard members of couples say to me, "but if I have to ask for____then its not the same.
This regressed childish statement speaks of the magic of intuiting you, your needs, wants and desires!
What is really being said here is that if you can intuit my needs, wants and desires than I truly am loved unconditionally. Many play this awful guessing and mind reading game and really do expect their significant other to read their minds.
Poppycock and tommy rot! We are not little children (or are we) we are adults and if you happen to have a partner who is willing to hear and make attempts at accommodating your needs and wants then how bout a little gratitude instead of attitude!
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