Gay Dating Advice

Tragedy to triumph

This tip is for those who have lost someone for any reason, from being dumped to a partners demise.

While it could be argued that thier is a huge differnce between the two, there are many similarities if there was a large degree of attachment!

When we enter into a relationship and integrate our lives with another person.  As a result we are we are forever changed. Our worlds are intertwined and organized around the other...

Yearning vs. Longing

OK, I know that I am not the only one who gets these two muddled!

Have you ever lost a love?  I don't mean at a mall or anything, but really lost some one you were in love with, either by break up or some other form of ending?  Of course you have.  We all have and we all experience varying degrees of pain, anguish, and frustration. 

Clarity about what that anguish is about can help us turn it around, heal and move on...

Look Out Mr. Bush!

Speaking of the Bible...a tool for personal enlightenment, becomes ammunition against others in the hands of corrupt men and women!

My personal favorite chapter in the bible is a Ecclesiastes...the existential chapter of the bible.....

In Chapter and verse 9:13 called Wisdom better than folly, King Solomon tells a very important story....

I pledge alligence....

It was over 35 years ago and I can remember it perfectly....There I was in grade school saying the pledge of allegence....you might remember it to....

I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America,
and to the Republic for which it stands: one Nation under God, indivisible,
With Liberty and Justice for all.

Remember?

I have often made the statement that I stay out of politics...and for the most part I do...but today things are different....

Dating: The un-natural act!

Dating is the most un natural act of our species!

Meet someone, get to know them, ask them on a date, meet at a specified time and place to get together with the notion of getting to know them better and hopefully have fun.

A date is a socially contrived activity.  It is a construct of our own making to give the appearance of civility and try and do something more that operate with our penis!

9/11

4 years ago to the day, sitting in my old office on 23rd street off 7th, on a beautiful Monday morning, when I received a call from my friend Marc telling me to turn on the news;  The Twin Towers were callapsing....

Relationship is a verb, not a noun!

coming soon!

Is a relationship all about work?

NO!!!!

While many think that a good relationship is all about work, it's not.  There are some things that are just deal breakers!

Getting on each others nerves

While reading Cynthia O'Neal's daily advice in out magazine, I came across a letter that piqued my interest.

In this letter the man complained about he and his partners getting on each others nerves and their lack of friends....O'neals advice was right on the money...so what am I piqued about....

A relationship tease???

Charles Purdy, a writer for Planet Out answers a very interesting question on something he calls a relationship tease.

He refers to them as those that dangle the possibility of a future relationship as he says, "stringing love-besotted admires on for months or years..or forever.