Gay Dating Advice

In the company of others...

My partner and I have been friends for about 6 years and have been together going on 4.  We have a great blessing that we both are able to share. 

It Ruins it if I have to ask

Oh how many times I have heard members of couples say to me, "but if I have to ask for____then its not the same.

This regressed childish statement speaks of the magic of intuiting you, your needs, wants and desires!

Should I stay or should I go

Many times I am asked, "Eric, how do I know when it's time to go?" This is a very hard question to answer and I will do my darnedest to try and answer it.

While it is true that a relationship wont make you happy, a bad relationship will can cause you a great deal of misery.

So lonely!

For the past year and some months now, my partner and I have been working together at home.  Except for my one day a week jaunt into NYC each week for Friends In Deed.  We spend the majority of our daily lives together....

Up coming changes in the site

Just a warning about the up coming changes in our site here.

Well on first glance this site looks like it is just for single gay men who want to learn more about what they can do to improve their dating successes it wont be JUST that any  more.

You see, one of my main passions is the whole life cycle of dating and relationships.  From the dating game through the relationshipping process right on through various kinds of endings.

So pay attention to the changes that will take place here. 

Now in order to help you navigate it to what you want, you will be able to do so by attending to the new categories on the right hand side.

Enjoy!

He's just too into you!

Have you ever dated anyone who was just too into you?  They are enthused and clearly overly zealous about you.  Overly complimentary and pushing for marriage way before the timing might be mutual

What goes on here...people who are clearly nice, very often attractive acting like pushy teen agers...a real turn off and rarely get second dates.  Well if you have had this experience or have actually been the chaser then listen up.  You will want to know this for future reference.

Evidence of gay relationships exists as early as 2400 B.C.

While brainstorming names for this site to be more inclusive of the entire life cycle of Gay relationships...you know...Meet up>hook up> break up and make up... or new tag line...

Andy came across the following bit of trivia about two royal gay manicurists

Perhaps there is a kernel of truth in a stereo type after all.....:-)

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The single most important thing when dating for a partner!

At least once a week I get asked the question, "What is the most important thing I need to know if I am dating for a life partner?"

And here is my usual answer...